It Still Feels So Good

Yesterday (for f.r.e.e) I gave you a big success tip,
and I'm not sure I stressed it enough so I'm going
to repeat it.

Even though it's really priceless I probably should
have kept it secret and put a huge price tag on it so
you'd get a better sense of what it's really worth.

The danger in my giving it away is that you won't
listen to it or appreciate it enough.

I believe this to be one of the two most important
habits you can ever develop in your life. It is as
important to your overall success as exhaling is to
your physical health.

It is the way you deal with, handle, lessen, and
remove negative things from your life. Negative
will happen. Sometimes it's your fault. More
often it's not, but it still affects your life.

If you will learn how to practice what they call
"forgiveness" in relationships you can take the
sting out of almost andy bad that happens.

It will be called different things in different
situations. Letting go, being detached, giving grace,
relaxing, exhaling, looking with kind eyes, etc., but
it is the same basic response.

You wouldn't literally "forgive" a flat tire that
caused you to miss the team bus, but you would
need to let go of your frustration and anger if you
wanted to function at your best when you did
finally make it to the game.

And you'd probably have to forgive yourself for
not leaving early enough that a flat tire wouldn't
have mattered. Or you might need to forgive a
ref that night for a bad call or two, or a teammate
for not hitting you on a fast break and instead
getting a charging call.

Spend some time thinking about this, and I think
you'll see how important it is. The more negative
thoughts, feelings, and expectations you can erase
the better flow you will be in whatever you are
trying to do.

Shoot For The Stars,

Coach Dean - The Dean of Shooting Hoops

P.S. Former high school, college and pro player
and private coach Patrick Chylinski knows a lot
about offensive flow. It's his bread and butter.
He can show you ways to put yourself in the
"zone" and stay there longer.

And he has now distilled all his experience into
a concise report you can use to develop yourself
into a 20 Point Per Game scorer.

You'll have to supply the "want to" and put in
the time, but you can find the information you
need today at:

http://www.deandelker.com/20ppg.html

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It Feels So Good When I Stop

It's the New Year, and I'm going to recommend you
not make resolutions or set goals this year. They do
work sometimes, but I believe most of the time
that's because there are other factors already in
place that make it possible.

For the average person starting with goals or
resolutions is a recipe for failure and frustration. It's
like trying to build a house without first laying a
foundation.

Goals can work when you're in the right frame of
mind, and the right emotional state. If you focus
on them too soon though you'll probably not follow
through with them for very long.

I think it was Groucho Marx who used to tell the
joke about a guy standing on a street corner and
repeatedly hitting himself over the head with a
hammer. A fellow comes along and asks him why
he’s doing such a terrible thing to himself, to
which he replies,

"Because it feels so good when I stop."

What I want you to do to feel good is stop beating
yourself up for your past failures.

It's called forgiveness, or letting go, or grace, or
detachment, or just plain releasing, and it the
main tool you have for lessening negativity in your
life.

It's not so easy to do until you understand why it's
such a necessity, but once you experience it's power
you'll be a believer.

Tomorrow I'll show you the other side ofthe coin,
i.e. how to increase and magnify the positives in
your life.

Shoot For The Stars,

Coach Dean - The Dean of Shooting Hoops

P.S. No matter what you've done or haven't done in
the past, you have the right to burn those bridges
and let go of the negativity and doubt. Then you'll
be ready to move forward and take action.

Patrick Chylinski has been a 20 point per game
scorer and more in high school, college, and
professionally. He is now a private coach in the
Los Angeles area where he charges up to $100
an hour.

For a fraction of that though you can get hold of
a unique 41 page report Patrick has put together
on how to be a prime-time scorer. Isn't it time
to let go of your past, and see how Patrick can
put you on a more positive path today at:

http://www.deandelker.com/20ppg.html