The Right Way To Be Perfect

Have you noticed how people who call
themselves perfectionists really aren't?

Don't they always look for what's wrong?

Wouldn't that make them:

IMPERFECTIONISTS?

It all depends on your focus.

There's nothing wrong with noticing areas
where you can improve, as long as you
realize it is just good information.

That kind of feedback helps you correct
course and hit your targets more often.
That's precisely what you want.

Mistakes only hurt you when you start
assigning emotional blame to them and
making judgements about yourself. If you
feel too bad you'll lose the info that is there
to show you a better way. And your
performance will suffer too.

The best way to be at your best is to focus
on what you have going for you and be
grateful for that. Then notice your flaws so
you can work on them, but don't beat
yourself up.

What you want to shoot for is excellence, not
perfection. Leave that one up to God.

Shoot For The Stars,

Richard Dean Delker

P.S. And one of the best ways to develop body,
soul, and spirit is learning how to breathe right.
I'm not talking about those reinforced strips
you put over your nose.

Most westerners don't have a clue what good
breathing is, or what an almost unfair
advantage it can give them in the game of life.
Be a leader and not a follower by finding out
today at:

http://www.deandelker.com/complete_breath.html

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